Oprah’s Advise Re: MEN

from mich dulce to chuvaness to firegoddess

* If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

* If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

* Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

* Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

* Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

* Slower is better.

* Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

* If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".

* A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

* Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

* Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

* The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

* Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

* Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

* Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

* If something bothers you, speak up.

* Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

* You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

* Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job.

* Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

* Never let a man define who you are.

* Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

* A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

* All men are NOT dogs.

* You should not be the one doing all the bending… compromise is two way street.

* You need time to heal between relationships…

* There is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

* You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals… look for someone complimentary… not supplementary.

* Dating is fun… even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

* Make him miss you sometimes… when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.

* Never move into his mother's house.

* Never co-sign for a man.

* Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

* Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

aaahhhhcccchhhhuuuuuwwwww

this is sssoooooo bad..

i cant work

i got headache

cant think right

aarrggghhhh

i hate it.. i hate having colds..

how come i can easily get this ewwwiissshh thing..

i already took 2 caplet of decolgen to relieve this uncomfortable feeling..

i need a rest

i need more time to sleep..

more vit c

more time to relax (haha or i might just wanna be at the beach)…

+ -

for some weird reasons, my hubby and i became really mushy this past few days.. no fights, no arguements, no silent moments.. we're just happy. i wanted that thing to last and maybe the negative mind me in was silent for long.. im at peace.. yahooo!!! i've felt this before.. not so long ago. i feel im being love and i also love at the same time.. the feeling of endless bliss runs my spine.. yes yes yes.. i love him and he loves me back.. i feel being taken good care of.. when im tired, when i need to take my usual medicines, when i need to see my ob-gyne (who fyi is always giving me trouble.. shes no where to be found), when i needed support, when my moods ones again do the see-saw..

i just love him… 

even for some reasons there are times that he really gets into my nerves.. the times when i know im irritated of the usual things that he does.. it never happened that i feel i dont love him. but i have to admit there are times when i thought i might not marry him.. of course he knew that.. i just thought for a while that: hey i dont want to be miserable for the rest of my life.. i'd rather skip the expensive, production show — wedding

but in reality.. as in right now.. 

                i know im gonna get there..

                       be married with the man i love

                              have kids

                                  love them

                                          life.. love..

friday madness

webby: matagal 'to?

ada: nakakaantok  

webby:  uu nga eh, may tea party pa kaya tayo.. si hanna na ang pinag ayus ko

ada: kaya nga di tayo ready sa seminar nya..

webby: uu nga

ada: cant touch this!!! — vanilla ice

ada: ang sakit sa mata ng polo nya

webby: si tanders tagalog sagot.. "kasi ako respect eh"

ada: oo nga!!!

ada: sleepy..

ada: pink pink pink pink pink pink pink

webby:  hehehe adik ka..

webby:  baket kaya ako ang inuutusan nya? adik nho?

ada: practice yan.. adik

webby:  bkt? adik hehehe

ada: next week dun ka na kasi dito na si loubelle.. secret lang.. nag meeting kami

webby: baliw ka! hehe

ada: mamaya magligpit ka na ng mga gamit mo.. pati yung PC mo dadalhin sa CC

webby: adik ka

* the above convo was just scribbles out of my steno notebook while having a "seminar" with our CEO

* the pink thing — his fushia pink polo by Arrow match with red neck tie!!!

* it was a very tiring day..

* we went to rock candy for a while and chill..

best damn thing — avril lavigne

the album is currently number one on my playlist!!!

the world is our play ground and we will always be home

you are my sunshine and my occassional rain

we became divine after every pain

so please wont you sit through

because everyday we find reasons to stay

if words are to few to keep horizons in view

will you go or stay and grow?

standing on the edge between crazy and sense

remember what is said nothing has to end..

the tale of juliet

yesterday we got the chance to met and greet the author of the best selling book… the tale of juliet — ms. jhet torcelino - van ruyuen. she share something about her life and reaching her goals.. it was inspiring. she humbly talks about what she has gone through.. although at the back of my mind i was thinking: a good marketing strategy eh'!anywho.. it was fun.. i'll be waiting for andrea to read the book first then hopefully she'll share with me.. also im looking forward for the seminar still don't have the details yet.. 

new schus!!!

yaddi yaddi

got a new pair of gold flats from schu..

a great deal i must say.. 

the sweetest thing..

ace is making me a song!!!  hahaha yeah he is actually trying to do a song for me. it sounds soooo sweet and funny at the same time..

Schu SALE!!!

hooorrrraaayyyyy!!!

                             SALE!!!!

I just can't wait till five.

I read from shopcrazy.com that SCHU is having a sale like Php399 per a pair of shoes!!! or get to pay the price of one..

its almost three and I can't wait to get there.. oh well..

need to do my work first and reward myself..

                          and oh my birthday is coming!!!

                                        another excuse for shopping!!!